The Healing Crisis: Why Behaviors May Worsen Before Improving
Understanding the Paradox of Healing
Have you ever noticed that sometimes things seem to get worse before they get better? This phenomenon, known as the healing crisis, is a well-documented experience across many therapeutic and recovery journeys. For families supporting loved ones through behavioral challenges or individuals navigating their own mental health recovery, the temporary worsening of symptoms can be confusing and discouraging. Yet understanding this process is crucial for maintaining hope and perseverance on the path to wellness.
At its core, a healing crisis represents not a failure of treatment but rather evidence that profound changes are occurring beneath the surface. Just as muscle growth requires the microscopic tearing of tissue before strengthening, emotional and behavioral healing often involves a period of disruption before new, healthier patterns can emerge.
A healing crisis in behavioral health refers to a temporary intensification of symptoms or behaviors that occurs as part of the therapeutic process. This phenomenon has been observed across various contexts, from addiction recovery to trauma therapy, behavioral interventions, and emotional processing work.
During a healing crisis, individuals may experience:
Increased emotional sensitivity or reactivity
Temporary regression to previous behavioral patterns
Heightened anxiety, irritability, or emotional lability
Physical symptoms like fatigue, sleep disturbances, or tension headaches
Stronger urges related to maladaptive coping mechanisms
This process reflects the complex interplay between biological, psychological, and social factors that influence our behavior and emotional experiences. Rather than indicating treatment failure, these challenges often signal that meaningful change is underway.
Why Do Behaviors Sometimes Worsen During the Healing Process?
The temporary worsening of behaviors during treatment can be attributed to several interconnected mechanisms:
Neurobiological Recalibration
Our nervous systems develop patterns based on our experiences and environments. When therapeutic interventions begin to shift these patterns, the brain essentially undergoes a recalibration process. This neurochemical adjustment period can temporarily intensify symptoms as neural pathways reorganize themselves.
For instance, as individuals learn to express emotions they previously suppressed, they may initially feel overwhelmed by these feelings. The brain is establishing new pathways for healthy emotional processing, but this transition period can be turbulent.
Emotional Release and Processing
Many behavioral challenges stem from unprocessed emotional experiences. As therapy creates a safe space to address these underlying issues, suppressed emotions may surge to the surface. This emotional release, while ultimately healing, can temporarily manifest as increased emotional volatility or behavioral reactivity.
Disruption of Coping Mechanisms
When maladaptive coping strategies (like avoidance, substance use, or self-harm) are addressed in treatment, individuals lose these familiar ways of managing distress before fully developing healthier alternatives. This gap can lead to a temporary increase in distress and behavioral difficulties.
Stage of Healing Crisis
Common Experiences
Support Needs
Initial Phase
Confusion, resistance, skepticism about treatment
Validation, psychoeducation about the healing process
Recognition of progress, preparation for future challenges, maintenance strategies
How Can You Distinguish Between a Healing Crisis and a Setback?
Not every worsening of symptoms indicates a healing crisis. Distinguishing between productive discomfort and problematic regression requires careful consideration. Here are key differences:
Timing and Context
A healing crisis typically emerges following meaningful therapeutic engagement or significant life changes. It often correlates with recent therapeutic interventions or insights. In contrast, setbacks may occur randomly or in response to specific stressors unrelated to the healing process.
Pattern and Progression
During a healing crisis, symptoms may intensify but often manifest differently than before. There is usually a dynamic quality to the experience—periods of difficulty interspersed with moments of clarity or progress. With true setbacks, the pattern more closely resembles previous symptomatic episodes without these glimpses of growth.
Response to Support
Perhaps most importantly, a healing crisis typically responds well to continued therapeutic support and self-care strategies. The individual remains engaged in the recovery process despite discomfort. With genuine setbacks, these interventions may prove less effective without additional adjustments to the treatment approach.
What Role Does Detoxification Play in Behavioral Changes?
The concept of detoxification extends beyond physical substances to include emotional and behavioral patterns. Just as the body may experience withdrawal symptoms when eliminating toxins, our psychological systems undergo similar processes when releasing unhealthy patterns.
Emotional Detoxification
As individuals begin addressing long-standing emotional patterns—whether through therapy, mindfulness practices, or behavioral interventions—they effectively initiate an emotional detoxification process. This might involve:
Confronting previously avoided feelings or memories
Recognizing patterns of emotional suppression or overreaction
Releasing attachment to familiar but unhelpful narratives about oneself or others
This emotional cleansing process can temporarily increase distress as feelings that were previously contained now move through the system. However, this movement is essential for lasting emotional health.
Behavioral Pattern Disruption
Similarly, behavioral interventions aim to disrupt established patterns that no longer serve the individual. When maladaptive behaviors have become deeply ingrained, their disruption creates a period of adjustment as new patterns form. During this transition, behaviors may briefly intensify before new responses become established.
Support systems play a crucial role in helping individuals navigate the challenges of a healing crisis. Whether you’re supporting a loved one or seeking to build your own support network, consider these approaches:
Create Safety and Stability
During periods of intensified symptoms, establishing environmental safety and predictability becomes especially important. This might include:
Maintaining consistent routines
Reducing unnecessary stressors or demands
Creating calm spaces for rest and regulation
Ensuring physical and emotional safety needs are met
Practice Validation Without Reinforcement
One of the most valuable forms of support involves validating the difficulty of the experience without inadvertently reinforcing problematic behaviors. This means acknowledging distress while maintaining appropriate boundaries:
“I can see you’re really struggling right now, and that makes sense given everything you’re working through. Let’s focus on getting through this moment together using the strategies we’ve practiced.”
Foster Perspective and Hope
During a healing crisis, individuals often lose perspective on their progress. Support people can help maintain a broader view by:
Gently highlighting small improvements
Reminding them of their strengths and past successes
Normalizing the nonlinear nature of healing
Expressing confidence in their capacity to move through challenges
What Strategies Help Manage the Challenging Phases of Recovery?
For those experiencing a healing crisis, certain practical approaches can help navigate this challenging territory:
Self-Compassion Practices
Self-criticism often intensifies during difficult phases of healing. Cultivating self-compassion—treating oneself with the same kindness you would offer a good friend—can significantly ease this process. This might include:
Acknowledging the difficulty without judgment
Using compassionate self-talk
Practicing forgiveness for moments of regression
Recognizing the courage it takes to engage in healing work
Body-Based Regulation Techniques
The physical dimension of emotional distress responds well to body-based interventions:
Deep, rhythmic breathing to activate the parasympathetic nervous system
Gentle movement or stretching to release tension
Progressive muscle relaxation to reduce physical manifestations of stress
Sensory grounding techniques to manage overwhelming emotions
Balanced Perspective-Taking
During a healing crisis, thinking often becomes polarized. Practicing balanced perspective-taking helps counter this tendency:
Acknowledging both challenges and progress
Recognizing that difficulty doesn’t mean failure
Remembering that healing crises are temporary phases
Appreciating small movements forward amid struggles
The Other Side of the Healing Crisis
While healing crises present significant challenges, they also hold tremendous potential for growth. The destabilization that occurs during these phases creates opportunities for fundamental reorganization—allowing new patterns, insights, and capacities to emerge.
Many individuals report that navigating through healing crises ultimately strengthened their resilience and self-understanding in ways that wouldn’t have been possible without these challenging experiences. The process of confronting difficulties, developing new responses, and persisting through discomfort builds confidence in one’s ability to face future challenges.
Understanding the healing crisis as a natural, meaningful part of the recovery journey—rather than a sign of failure—allows individuals and their support systems to approach these phases with greater patience, wisdom, and hope. By recognizing that behaviors may temporarily worsen as part of the healing process, we can maintain our commitment to growth even when progress isn’t immediately visible.
If you need support or have questions about navigating behavioral changes during recovery, please contact us at Ararat Wellness.
How long does a typical healing crisis last?
The duration of a healing crisis varies widely depending on individual circumstances, the nature of the challenges being addressed, and the type of intervention. For some, these periods may last days or weeks, while for others working through complex trauma or long-standing patterns, phases of intensification may continue intermittently over months. What remains consistent is that these periods are temporary and typically resolve as new patterns become established.
Should therapy or support be discontinued if behaviors worsen?
In most cases, worsening behaviors during treatment indicate a need for adjustment rather than discontinuation. Maintaining therapeutic support during difficult phases is often crucial, though modifications may be needed—such as increasing session frequency, adding complementary supports, or temporarily focusing on stabilization rather than processing. Open communication with treatment providers about changes in symptoms is essential for making appropriate adjustments.
How can families distinguish between normal healing reactions and dangerous regression?
While some behavioral intensification can be part of the healing process, certain warning signs indicate a need for immediate attention: emergence of suicidal thoughts or behaviors, severe self-harm, complete withdrawal from daily functioning, or aggressive behaviors that threaten safety. Families should work closely with professionals to develop clear safety plans that outline steps to take if concerning behaviors emerge.
Can medication changes contribute to a healing crisis?
Yes, medication adjustments—whether starting, changing, or discontinuing psychiatric medications—can contribute to temporary symptom exacerbation. These changes affect neurochemical balance, sometimes producing temporary effects before the body adapts. This biological process can overlap with and intensify the psychological aspects of a healing crisis, highlighting the importance of coordinated care between all treatment providers.
What role does resilience play in navigating healing crises?
Resilience—the capacity to adapt and recover from difficulties—significantly influences how individuals experience healing crises. While everyone has innate resilience, this quality can be deliberately strengthened through practices that build emotional regulation skills, social connection, meaning-making, and physical wellbeing. Developing these resilience factors before and during treatment can help mitigate the intensity of healing crises and shorten their duration.